Cheating Spouse List

Why is cheating worse than?
neglecting your spouse, belittling your spouse, refusing sex with your spouse, never talking or listening to your spouse….the list goes on.
When you get married there are a lot of things meant in those vows. As I recall, I never said “I solemnly swear never to have sex with anyone else”, but it was implied somewhere in there. Shouldn’t everything I mentioned above be taboo in a marriage? So many people on here talk about what terrible people “cheaters” are, but how can they judge without knowing the whole story? To me, someone committing any of the things I mentioned is not holding up their end of the bargain, and yet if they were to be cheated on, it would be their spouse you would judge. Why is that?
This isn’t about me, it just bothers me to see that some people can judge so easily. For those of you that like to quote the bible, isn’t there something in there that says “judge not lest ye be judged”? Think about it, nobody’s perfect.
I agree with you.
I also really wonder why people even marry if they don’t want to love, honor, cherish and make it the best relationship possible.
Some people are so damaged by their relationship that they stumble away from it the only way they know how.
It seems like people get married with expectations….but not the same expectations as their mate that sets them up for bitterness and disappointment. Which results in the worst relationship in their lives. Maybe they are just repeating patterns from past generations.
Don’t be too quick to judge………the things you judge justs might happen to you
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May 5th, 2010 at 3:23 pm
r u going through this
May 13th, 2010 at 2:31 am
Lol. This is a tough question to answer, but if your wife was doing this, would you be upset? Yes, you would. I don’t think you should do that..
May 29th, 2010 at 3:55 pm
@MOOKTHADON if you my niggz I aint supportin no infidelity lol.
November 17th, 2010 at 8:26 pm
bad habits die hard..
November 27th, 2010 at 4:51 am
cheating is so rampant nowadays. might just be a norm one day. RT @xoxojamieee i dunno y her faggot husband still cheat on her!
December 7th, 2010 at 6:51 pm
Yes, I would like to be told.
December 14th, 2010 at 4:34 am
First you have to ask yourself do you want to cause trouble for someone that has no idea (their lovers other half). Second i would confront both my spouse and the one he is having the affair with ask what the h*** is going on. Third you have to ask yourself do you want to take a chance on staying with someone who cheated on you.
December 15th, 2010 at 4:11 pm
RT @fatbellybella: RT Erykah Badu on Men & Infidelity. @fatbellybella http://bit.ly/9hzhuj (via @M3M3LLA)interesting!