Getting Help For Infidelity
My Husband and I are possibly getting separated, I need help!!?
My husband and I have been married for almost 5 yrs and together for 7yrs. We have 3 children. In the last year my husband has had non-physical infidelity with two separate women at two separate times. He says that his reasoning is because he doesn’t get what he needs from me mentally but when I have ever tried to be emotionally and mentally there and supportive he laughs me off and pushes me away. He said that when they say things that he likes he ends up becoming vulnerable to them but when it all comes down to anything physical he thinks of me and the kids and can’t follow through with anything. He says that he doesn’t doubt that he loves me but he doesn’t know if he is in love with me or not. He doesn’t know how to tell the difference. He is not open about himself at all in any area and he tends to push/run away if something gets hard or scares him. I told him that I am willing to go as far as it takes to save us. HELP!
God Bless you…as I know you are struggling right now with various issues. Plus the holidays are approaching, and it’s rough.
First, check out this website:http://www.marriagebuilders.com/
and read this book (with your husband): Emotional Infidelity :http://www.amazon.com/Emotional-Infidelity-Affair-Proof-Marriage-Relationship/dp/0609810006/sr=8-1/qid=1164994867/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1/103-7635451-8442226?ie=UTF8&s=books
Then…decide if you want to continue the marriage.
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May 20th, 2010 at 8:51 pm
Yes, you will need it.
November 13th, 2010 at 6:21 am
Has it ever occur to you that this man just wants the attention, sex, partying kind of ‘whore’, who will give him anything he wants? A man like this has no respect for himself and for any woman.
November 15th, 2010 at 3:09 am
I’ll go on a limb and say I consider myself a fairly attractive woman, and my husband, a VERY attractive man, and I’d never consider cheating on my husband. I love and respect him too much for that. Its an infidelity for a reason, and I solidly believe that if you don’t think you can commit to one person, dont tell THEM you can. Its unfair. Let your intentions be known, hell there are websites JUST for people looking to get some and move on. I personally do believe a LOT of people cheat, and from my experience in life, its more women that cheat than men. Women know what they have, and they use it to their advantage.. only, women dont get caught NEARLY as often as men. I would like to believe MOST people are loving and loyal, but also, in my OWN experience with people I know and what I read and see, thats just how they APPEAR… not actually what you get. The human race is too full of flaws, and the worst being lust. I’m sorry, but I can’t say I agree.
November 22nd, 2010 at 10:38 am
Stay out of it or you will lose both friends!! People cheat and people lie and some do both but they have a bond and you spilling the beans will cause her to approach him and if she believes his story then they both are done with you I’ve had it happen to me. You can be sneaky and have your friend over and suggest going through the personals for something fun to do and accidently come across hubby’s profile just act as shocked as she is!!
November 28th, 2010 at 9:16 am
you caint buy trust<< once a cheater always a cheater,,