Infidelity Emotional Abuse
I feel like if I get divorced, my daughter and I will be happier. Did you feel this way and did it happen?
No physical abuse or infidelity, just emotional abuse (yelling, blaming, blowing me off, see-saw temperment, pessimistic, lazy, judgmental, blames others for own faults). We argue a lot and my 3 year old daughter I know is suffering. I think he could be a good person, but with someone else. We got married because of our child. And we were on the verge of breaking up when I found out I was pregnant. Been together 7 years, married for two. Volatile relationship. I am drinking more to deal with depression because I want to move on with my life but dont’ know if I should (because he hasn’t cheated or hit me so most would say no cause for divorce). He blows off any suggestion of counseling.
I just want to have peace of mind.
Anyone have any experience with this sort of scenario?
Sheba-She’s 3. I’m not going to wait 15 years before I start dating, if I were to get divorced. Now you’re not being realistic.
sort of that scenario..
yeah, I knew my reasons wouldnt appear rational to onlookers, but what do they know, they didnt live in my house(or my head).
Once I was on my own it it was much better, it didnt get difficult until he realized he didnt like paying support and I had someone new in our life (I figure he was jealous because of our daughter, not me).
but that part is over now, too, and I still feel better.
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May 9th, 2010 at 1:12 am
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December 10th, 2010 at 2:44 am
Not in a million years – if my spouse truly loved and wanted to be with me, they wouldn’t be cheating. I couldn’t live a lie and stay with someone that didn’t love me.