Infidelity Impotence

infidelity impotence
Found out my husband of 5 yrs is seeing a girl for 8 months. He never penetrated me, just had oral sex. .?

I posted a question before about me remaining a virgin for 5 yrs. My husband never penetrated but just had oral sex. Thanks to your answers, I found out he is seeing someone else. BUT what I dont understand is….he just started seeing her 8 months ago, and he didnt answer if he had sex with her.
Is it possible for him to penetrate her given the fact that he didnt stray for a whole 4 yrs but never penetrated me? I mean, can a normal guy refrain from getting in for all these years?
His excuse now is my tobacco consumption put him off but he never said that before and he didnt penetrate even when I didnt smoke….
‘It’ would stand for a little while but never get in but he would cum.I have no clue. First he said he is incapable now he says it was voluntary. Could I have a prob then?
But I always had normal sexual desires, just remained faithful and virgin for his love. I am moving on but the curiosity is killing me. Impotence and infidelity doesnt go. If he’s gay then why a girl!

The ‘smoking’ thing is totally irrelevant, for how would it relate to him not having penetrative sex? I mean, you smoke using your mouth don’t you? So, if anything, smoking should affect oral sex, not the other kind!

I have trouble understanding the basis of your non-sexual relationship for all this time. But it does seem to be the case that it is your husband who has the sexual problems, and now also fidelity problems. So, as you so rightly indicate, you are moving on. I wouldn’t waste any further curiosity on him, but make sure you now have a fully satisfying life.

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3 Responses to “Infidelity Impotence”

  1. Lizabeth Media Says:

    No way that is not cheating. I wish my husband had this. I definately do, so therefore, I sleep with myself all of the time. :) Good thought Garnet, good thought.

  2. Kurtis Harriott Says:

    Jen is stupid, her husband admitted he was cheating…she wasnt gonna stop talkin 2 him just b/c of PLASTIC

  3. Susana Corbelli Says:

    Would they say or do those things with their spouse lookign over their shoulder?? That can be a big indicator of whether someone should be doing something or not. I don’t think it’s the same as actually touching someone, but I definitely think it’s wrong. A compliment is something like: "you look good today.." or "I like your hair." Not, "wow, your ass is hot."

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