Is Infidelity Ever Justified
I used to be on of those women who abhored the idea of cheating and all cheaters, but after living in a resentful, lukewarm, and inconsistent marriage for 11 years, I’m finding it much easier to understand how infidelity happens. Like every other woman, I’ve had my chances and thankfully I haven’t succumbed to them, but I’m starting to think that infidelity is not altogether an evil matter orchestrated by callous homewreckers. I have repeatedly expressed my concerns to my husband about our lack of intimacy (not the sexual sort); he just doesn’t get it. Although I’d never resort to infidelity in the form of a one-night stand, the notion of an emotional affair frigthens me because I’ve grown to understand how it could happen. What are your thoughts: are emotional affairs and/or infidelity ever justified/forgiveable/understandable?
Actually, I also agree with you. Surprisingly. My marriage was also luke warm and similar to yours. My X was the one who cheated. When I found out about it, it gave me “permission” to end the relationship and walk away. Although i never cheated, i can understand why he did. Unfortunately I couldn’t forgive it, or trust him again. I can also admit, that i may have ended up doing the same thing if the marriage continued. As I experience more of life, i see less things in black or white. My question to you would be, why not leave?? My life is so much happier and fuller now. Although it’s sad when a marriage ends…..sometimes it’s healthier. If you can’t/won’t leave, be careful…….cheating can cost you everything. It did my husband. Good luck. I also have two kids similiar age to yours…..so i do know how you feel about staying…….
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May 12th, 2010 at 3:04 pm
The best thing you could do is divorce him. He has completely disrespected you. A man like that has no morals. I know what your going through. My husband of 15 years,( whom I just recently divorced), cheated on me with his 17 year old daughter that he hadn’t seen in 14 years. Her mother just up and out of the blue sent her to him, and approximately one year later slept with her. He seen nothing wrong with it. The only problem I have is that the only proof I have is his admission to it, but now he denies it. You need to just let him go. I’ve gone on with my life and I’m very happy. I hope no one has to go through what I went through its sick and disgusting. Yours is just as bad. I really feel for you, but like I said, let him go. You’ll be better off in the long run.
October 29th, 2010 at 11:33 pm
How much more distant can you get from the states to Afghanistan? If your husband doesn’t want to see his girls that is sad and you need to think of them and address visitation with him. If you need further space – Divorce.
November 14th, 2010 at 10:21 am
yes, but i wouldn’t fight for a cheating man. it takes two to tango and apparently, he is just as guilty as she is, so i wouldn’t blame just one person. i would call just to confirm that he was really cheating and then take it from there.
December 1st, 2010 at 11:55 am
I agree it could go both ways … at first my husband was so insecure that I could not even go in the front hard or talk with the guys in his family … not even his dad… and I always thought oh he love me so much but he needs to realize that he does not need to be jealous…. okay so one day we went to see this weird show with his family and he was so fricken drunk he was sitting like 4 feet away from me when there was no one on our side of the table… so I kept catching him glancing over to where his sister where and they had some hoe there with them… and when we go to leave I told everyone bye and as I was walking I turned around and saw him waving good bye to his family but then suddenly stopped to give this hoe a hug goodbye… so me and him got into it big time and then I got in a agruemeargumenty brother in-law for hitting my sister in law and he told me yeah that why your man fucked that bitch….. well he denies it all the time but I really do think he did and that is why he was so insecure… because I never gave him a reason to be that way so he must have his own reasons.
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