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Can anyone tell me how you survived your husbands or wife’s infidelity?

Emotional cheating or physical cheating? Were you able to get past it or did you end your marriage? Did children change your perspective, stay together for them or risk the statistic of divorce?
Tell me your story, what did you do?

Well I’m still working on it and it’s been a year for me. For now things are working ok, but we both kind of bit the bullet and said that we were going to give it our best to get through this and come out as a stronger couple. It helps that my wife was remoursefull (pulled out her hair she felt so bad) and loving although it did take some time as it took her a good month after my initial discovery to go no contact with the other man. The hardest thing has been her inability to anwer my questions about the affair, but that is needed to really heal. We’ve also both been in our own therapy and marriage counseling. It’s a slow process Surviving Infidelity and I definitly miss what we had before, but I’m starting to like what we have now. Really she just wanted attention from me and I was working hard. Not to say that she was right in what she did and the way she didn’t support my hard work and she was very selfish. But, really she didn’t love the other guy and it was just the attention, so she is working on that. Also, she seems to have changed and is more supportive and less selfish these days. Also, we don’t have kids and we are young, so there really was no other reason to make things work other then love for eachother, so in my opinion that is actually a positive. I also for some reason trust that she won’t do this again and that it has made her realize how much she loves me and took me for granted. I don’t beleive she is lieing to me anymore. Hopefully I won’t find out down the road that I’m a sucker. One thing that makes me feel a bit protected is that I knew almost imediatly when she started to the affair and I questioned her within 2 weeks of it begining, simply because the way she was treating me changed. I feel safe in knowing that she can’t do this behind my back without me knowing, because I’m that close to her.

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