Cheating Spouse How To Deal
Sunday, January 2nd, 2011
Is there anybody on this board that has been cheated on and is still with the Cheating Spouse.?
If you are still with them how do you deal with it on a day to day basis. Do you still trust them, do you still feel the same way about them?
My husband cheated on me within the first six months of our marriage. Great guy he is but I’m the first he’s ever been with of my ethnic background. He and I are of the same ethnicity but when he cheated he went back to what he was used to. We are still together and although we are currently having problems it has nothing to do with him cheating or me trusting him. It’s hard to re-build that trust but the cheating spouse has to do whatever it takes to prove the other it won’t happen again. I had my husband start calling me before he left work from his work phone that way if he wasn’t home within the allotted time it took to get there I’d have reason to worry. We went through a lot of interrogations on my part whenever he left the house and we even went through counseling. I think that was the biggest help. I still love him because I know he is a great guy, but I will admit that when something suspicious goes on, I do worry because in the back of my mind i know what he’s capable of. But I always ask questions and he’s more than willing to prove it to me. So I guess what I’m saying is as the culprit, if you manage to stay together, the cheating spouse must know that a lot of hurdles will have to be jumped in order to prove any suspicious activity on their part in the future.
Cheating wife