Self Help Infidelity
Saturday, May 21st, 2011
Gf birthday?
Its my gf birthday today and she seems really sad. We have been together for 6 months now and she plans to move in with me in march. The thing is, she got invited to strippers with some old friends of hers. She told me she didnt want to go cause she was “scared something might happen”. These friends of hers who I have never met are heavy into drugs and she told me she used to be too. That doesnt bother me as much as the fact she doesnt want me there with her. Does that mean she wants to be like her old self? Should i worry About Infidelity? She says she doesnt wanna go but at the same time doesnt have anything else to do. All I can do is let her know that I would never hurt her, and if she goes and does something “stupid” thats her choice. I won’t be around to help pick up the pieces if she decides to be an idiot. Suggestions? Thoughts?
if she doesnt want you there with her and supposedly “loves you” this isnt showing love at all. 6months is not a long time and if she moves in with you then there will be problems and i know i dont know you but i think it wont last. she should let go of these friends that have such negative influence on her if she wants to be a sucess. Be there for her and give her the benefit of the doubt but if she messes up then thats her fault and all u can do is give her advice. Shes showing wat type of person she is by the way she responds to your advice, good luck dude.
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