Infidelity True Stories
Tuesday, July 12th, 2011
Has anyone stuck with their spouse through infidelity and lived to NOT regret it?
I’d like to here some positive stories from people who have stuck with their spouse through cheating/infidelity and are glad that they did. Many people say once a cheater, always a cheater… But I don’t necessarily believe that is true.
Is their anything that you did differently that you believe helped your spouse to stay faithful? Or did you just accept the fact that they were cheating and learned to live with it? Or did they truly “change” or just not mess up again? If you could do things differently now, would you?
Thanks!
Marilyn.. Just had to say… Our situations are uncannily similar. Not the same… But lets suffice it to say, I have a hard time not prejudging and immediately disliking Phillipina women now.
Oh yeah.. and I’m glad he’s OUT of the military. That definitely helps!
This is a good question because it is difficult to stay with someone after they have cheated. In my case both of us cheated on eachother and we are still currently together. We both sacrificed pride among other things and what really helped is that both of us really want it to work and want to be faithful to one another. Another thing we had to do is put it behind us. We couldn’t bring it up during a fight. We really had to forgive eachother and move on. It’s really hard and I’m not sure if you’re religious but I went to God when I had my doubts and I asked for my partner to be transformed and little by little we have both changed for the better. We’ll be together for 7 years in May and I can’t say I have any regrets. Everything happens for a reason. Oh and another thing there has to be an open line of communication at all times. Couples have to be able to communicate their feelings in order to clear some stuff up. Best luck to you.
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