This is a good question because it is difficult to stay with someone after they have cheated. In my case both of us cheated on eachother and we are still currently together. We both sacrificed pride among other things and what really helped is that both of us really want it to work and want to be faithful to one another. Another thing we had to do is put it behind us. We couldn’t bring it up during a fight. We really had to forgive eachother and move on. It’s really hard and I’m not sure if you’re religious but I went to God when I had my doubts and I asked for my partner to be transformed and little by little we have both changed for the better. We’ll be together for 7 years in May and I can’t say I have any regrets. Everything happens for a reason. Oh and another thing there has to be an open line of communication at all times. Couples have to be able to communicate their feelings in order to clear some stuff up. Best luck to you.

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I don’t think this means you have some secret desire to cheat, or that you’re looking for somebody else. Sometimes we just dream what we dream, and there is no big revelation or decoding to be had. My guess is that focusing on these dreams (and your husbands!), or worrying about them, only causes more of them. Don’t worry, keep loving him, and reassure him. I wouldn’t make a big deal of telling him every time you have one of these dreams, either– if you know they’re not representative of your feelings, don’t worry him with them!

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The feeling you have is closure. That is what you want. You want to know why things happened like that, how he could cheat, what went wrong, what could of been done to prevent it. You just want what you are entitled to, an answer. Learning how things digressed could help you later in life as well. You will learn from this mistake, and know what to look for in a partner and relationship. He hurt you, and that is the only thing you know for sure, because you felt it. My advice to you, is to (if he is willing) just sit down and go over what happened. When a break-up occurs, things move really fast. It is hard to slow down and digest what is going down. Think of it in a time line. Look at every event, one at a time decipher what happened. If he is open to communication, that is the best way. As Marvin Gaye said “Talk to me so you can see whats going on…”. Best luck, I hope it works out.

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if the man has doubts about a child’s paternity, he can ask to have a test……but there are a lot of men who do not want to or need to….they are happily married men with families who have great relationships with the wives. also, based on your statistics, 85% to 90% of men are the real fathers on their children. pretty good odds, don’t you think?

i would pressume you do not have a great deal of trust with regards to the women you have been with….but that is your experience and the type of women you associate with may not be the type of girls you bring home to mother.

maybe if you changed your taste and try going with better women, those thrust worthly, faithful and loyal, then you will have another thought process….

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The whole “you choose to go to Hell; God doesn’t send you there” lie is classic passive-aggressive behavior.

If He’s all-powerful, He can simply destroy Hell, or change the rules so nobody has to go there at all. He’s just making excuses.

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Once a cheater, always a cheater.

Find someone who doesn’t cheat.

And try to keep it in your pants during the next relationship too.

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Yes, and female infidelity is quietly ignored by such women.

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that’s because when money out-earn their partners, they tend to lord it over them and act disgustingly princessy, entitled, bossy, and condescending.

it’s a way for the poor guys to establish SOME type of independence.

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You Can Make A Marriage Work After Infidelity

It might have been some time ago, but can you still remember that first spark that drew you to your partner, it made your heart perform all sorts of strange rhythms and left your mind bereft of all rational thought, you were just so focused on your partner. You know how the story goes, you dated and as your love grew, that spark burned ever brighter until that happy day that that you were joined together as Man and Wife. Your dreams come true, two made one, what more could you ask for. And, as it does, time drifts on. The honeymoon period had become just a faint memory, that is if you still remembered it, the spark that had drawn you both together had faded to just a faint flicker, the relationship was no longer fresh and golden, if anything it had become a bit stale, a bit mundane, a bit boring?

And then came the day, maybe your partner confessed or maybe they were caught, either way they had an affair and your very existence came crashing down around you. So my friend, how do you, make a marriage work after infidelity?

If the situation becomes known outside of your relationship then you are going to have a lot of well meaning friends and family who will try and help, it might be the last thing that you need at this point but do not push people away, these are your support network and you will need their help and support as you try to make sense of things. And once you are hopefully back together you will still want and need them to be there.

I guess that everything up to this point was pretty clear, you had everything mapped out way into the future, now that future has gone and neither of you know if your world will ever be the same again. You get dragged through shock, pain, depression, anger, disbelief, fear and guilt. These are intensely powerful emotions and they set you on an emotional rollercoaster that hurtles you through them again and again. You have to want to get of that ride, which will not be easy, but unless you do, what hope for your future. Now I know that things are looking pretty grim, but despite what has happened, it does not have to end in divorce.

All over there world there are couples getting back together on a daily basis, many will have gone through what you are going through and I do not doubt that some have gone through worse.Iif you both still love each other, why can’t it happen for you?

Back to that question of how to make a marriage work after infidelity. Like it or not you are going to have to talk to each other. Please do not leave it for too long because the longer you take the more difficult that it is going to be for someone to take that first step, and the less likely you are to get back together. It’s easier said than done but try remain objective and whatever you do, do not get into a shouting match, you are trying to heal the situation, not make it worse. O.K, you know that something has gone desperately wrong for you both to be in this situation. You both have to identify the problems or problems before you can move forward. If you have made mistakes in the relationship then you have to own up to them, they were your actions so take responsibility for them. If both of you are going to stand any chance of rebuilding the shattered trust in your relationship then there has to be complete transparency between the two of you.

A marriage is joining of two equal partners, you need to re-establish a connection to that and together, work out how you can move into the future together. The biggest step of all to take, and this one is massive, is that of forgiveness. Regardless of the outcome of this situation, if you ever hope to move on with your life and be happy again, then you have to be able to forgive. If you cannot forgive then it could eat away inside of you and poison the rest of your life. But then when you are hurting bad, it is not easy to forgive.

Without being able to forgive you will never be able to rebuild that bond of trust that is vital to a healthy marriage. Without being able to forgive, the pain that hurts you now will be replaced with distrust and suspicion, and that is not healthy. So, how can you make a marriage work after infidelity? You can go through everything that I have mentioned so far, and hey you will be back together. However, if the passion has all gone then you are at risk of going through this sorry mess all over again. Go back to when you first met. It was passion that kindled that first spark, O.K so you both let it fade, but there was something that drew you both together. Back in those early years you meant everything to each other, you have to find to re-kindle your passion for each other, you need to be able to connect with each other again.

You need to find some neutral ground where nobody knows you and just take some time finding out about each other, all over again. Once you have made that connection do not let the spark go out again. Go out and do things together, find interests that you can share. Go for a meal, a walk in a park, buy a bunch of flowers, call, email, text or even something as simple as washing the dishes. Personally I think that the best gestures are the simple ones, they come from the heart and are things that say I am thinking about you and that I care. Whatever you do, do not lose the passion it is what makes you strong, together.

There you have it my friend, if you still have the passion and love for each other then no matter what the problems that you face now or in the future, you will be able to face them, together. I sincerely hope that this article was of some use for you and that you are able to resolve your problems and are able to move on.

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Failing marriages have become a common issue today. The fast pace of life that we live today disable us to sit and think about clues of such failure and sort them out. The easy divorces and similar legal procedures relating to the termination of marriages have led to more and more couples coming up to end their relation for no real reasons even before the ink of their signatures dry in the marriage register.

In every marriage there are times when the partners are tested and required to stop and re-define their relationship. This article deals with the nature of threat in a marriage and with one of the most difficult ones infidelity. It offers specific guidance on how to deal with challenges and use hard times to make the marriage stronger than it was before.

Marriage counseling is a method for providing psychotherapy for a married couple. It tries to resolve problems in the relationship. Usually both the partners attend counseling sessions together to thrash out specific issues and try to put together the relationship. For couples not willing to go and meet with a counselor books provide the best alternative. There is enough reading material available for couples to resort to in times of crisis.

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“Prosperity: The eternal flow of all that’s good in life…”

By Carl “J.C.” Pantejo, Copyright January 2008

(Author “My Friend Yu – The Prosperity Mentor,” Copyright August 2007. Pantejo – Y.N. Vurce Publishing.)

*Below is the fifth episode in a series of real life events experienced by the author. The only deviations from the truth may be the names of people and places. These stories are also incorporated in “My Friend Yu – the Prosperity Mentor: Book II,” Pantejo – Y.N. Vurce Publishing. Release Date: Mid 2008.

- Open House -

We (my “adopted” sister, her husband, and I) have an “open house” policy.

If any friend falls on hard times and needs a place to stay, all he/she has to do is call, or simply drop in. Over the past two years, we’ve taken in countless “strays” and helped them as much as we could.

Whether it was a battered wife, abused girl/boyfriend, abandoned child, or delinquent adolescent; my home became the most popular haven in our “Mubon” (Thai: village) and “Soi (Thai: street), a warm and safe place to go when there were no other options.

The visitors stayed long enough to overcome their individual, temporary crisis – sometimes two weeks, sometimes two months. Once they were back on their feet again (emotionally, physically, and financially), we bid them a hearty farewell; wishing them all the best for a better life.

The benevolence was always repaid – not in money, but in much needed assistance.

As a Falang in Thailand, the simplest things tend to be frustratingly difficult to accomplish. Many times, when I needed help doing mundane, but vital, tasks (e.g., ordering food, purchasing a motorcycle, getting directions, traveling by taxi or bus, changing currency, etc.); I could rely on the people I’d helped in the past.

Asians have very long memories, indeed. It is not uncommon to return to a place many years later and find that casual acquaintances still remember your name, the things you did, and the things you like or dislike.

- Number One -

Her name was Nueng (Thai: Number One). In any other country, she would be described as quite attractive: smooth, brown skin; a slim, athletic figure; long, dark brown hair that cascaded down her back, and an exotic face that held a beautiful smile and alluring eyes.

But by Thai standards, she was “over the hill” at 24 years old.

In her younger years (from ages 16 through 21), she was considered quite a beauty, being the object of desire of all the local men in her village. Unfortunately, she ended up with the local Bad Boy and spent most of her “beauty years” in an abusive relationship.

Out of personal pride and familial/public pressure, Nueng stubbornly tolerated years Of Infidelity, lies, and physical abuse from her longtime boyfriend. But the rape of her little sister was the last straw. She finally left him…and, via my sister, ended up in my house.

- Nueng Who? -

Nueng arrived on a Friday afternoon while I was still working. My sister had already asked me if it was alright for Nueng to stay with us, saying, “You met her last year at the ‘Moo Kra Ta’ (Thai: BBQ), remember?”

I said, “No (I don’t remember), but if she needs a place to stay, yes, of course, it’s okay with me.”

When I saw Nueng, I instantly remembered who she was.

During a birthday party at a local Moo Kra Ta for a friend last year, Nueng and I met and spoke briefly. I also remember that the woman who accompanied me to the party got very jealous of Nueng – mainly, because Nueng was, as the girlfriend put it, “too friendly” with me.

It also irked my date that Nueng was not the usual “terrified to speak English” (especially to a foreigner) Thai woman. On the contrary, Nueng was a good sport. She was not afraid to speak (and mangle) the English language. I reciprocated with a proper bashing of the Thai language, having great fun trying to make sounds that have no English counterpart whatsoever! No exaggeration – sometimes I think it takes an extra tongue (or at least a spare epiglottis) to speak Thai!

I also remember telling my sister that Nueng reminded me of a girlfriend I had in Hawaii (many years ago).

- That First Night -

During the first night at my place, I could plainly see that Nueng was hurting. Being Thai, she forced herself to smile whenever I looked at her, but her eyes couldn’t conceal her true feelings.

Her beautiful brown, Asian eyes displayed a forlorn look – that sad expression seen on people with no one (and no place) to call their own. Of course, there were countless other reasons for her unhappiness too (shock, rage, loss, grief, heartbreak, uncertainty – and the list goes on and on).

Recently overcoming heartbreak, I truly empathized with Nueng, trying to make her feel as comfortable as possible – and failing miserably. My clumsy attempts at hospitality only widened the cultural gap between us, reinforcing the fact that, yes, I am a “Falang” (Thai: foreigner) in Thailand.

Sadly, Falangs in Thailand don’t have the greatest reputation for being respectable or reliable.

Since I couldn’t communicate well with Nueng, I could only imagine what she was going through. Maybe she was wrestling with the idea of going back to her abusive boyfriend? Statistics show that recidivism (to repeat a bad habit or return to an abusive situation) is high among abused girlfriends and spouses. Inwardly, I deeply hoped she would be strong enough to do what was best for her life (and safety).

- To Commiserate, or Not To Commiserate? -

I wanted to reach out to Nueng and tell her that things will only get better.

But I personally knew that during the post-breakup shock and blues period, words don’t really help much. Good people, kind actions, and a different, supporting environment soothes emotional wounds better than listening to cliché-sounding advice.

I wasn’t sure if she was ready to talk about her situation.

I wanted to tell her how I profoundly understood what’s she’s currently feeling. I wanted to tell her that abuse isn’t just a “woman problem,” it happens to men too. If she heard about my recent experiences dealing with the ex’s infidelity, lies, mental abuse, financial recklessness, and eventual break-up, would it help?

Maybe it would plunge her deeper into sadness? Was it the right time, or even an appropriate subject to talk about? To commiserate, or not to commiserate – that was the question.

Using my bilingual sister as a translator, I told Nueng to relax and make herself at home.

“You can stay as long as you need to,” I said.

“Kop khun kaa, Khun J.C., kop khun kaa maak (Thank you, Mr. J.C., thank you very much.),” she said, with a respectful “Wai” (a Thai gesture that is performed by putting the hands together, prayer-like, and touching the thumbs to the chin).

“If you want to stay here, you have to call me just plain ole’ J.C. No ‘Mr.’ please. It makes me feel much older than I am,” I said.

After the translation, Nueng’s face lit up with a bright smile.

Then I heard her laugh for the first time since she arrived. It was a wonderful sound…

(Continued in “Experiences from ‘The Flow’ (6): New Beginnings, Old Endings”)

“Until next time, find ‘The Flow’ and jump in!”

Your Friend in this Intrepid Journey called Life,

Carl “J.C.” Pantejo

Note: If you want to read more about overcoming heartbreak, unconditional love, exorcising past personal demons, and the Illusive Secret of Happiness, please read the following articles:

“Experiences from ‘The Flow’: From Heartbreak to Happiness”

“Experiences from ‘The Flow’ (2): Coincidence or Synchronicity: FROM RELAPSE TO MIRACLES…”

“Experiences from ‘The Flow’ (3): LOST AND FOUND – Kindred Spirits and Mistakes made in Haste.”

“Experiences from ‘The Flow’ (4): LOST AND FOUND – Meant to Be?”

“How Dare She! Out of Desperation I Learned How to Forgive”

“Remember Who You Are!”

“Need to Heal Your Broken Heart? Read on. Overcome Heartbreak and Learn the Illusive Secret of Happiness.”

(By Carl “J.C.” Pantejo and published internet-wide, keyword: [title of article] or “Carl Pantejo”)

Pantejo@ynvurcepublishing.com

About the Author

About the Author:

He is a retired U.S. Military veteran. Believing that school was too boring, he dropped out of High School early; only to earn an A.A., B.S., and MBA in less than 4 years much later in life – while working full-time as a Navy/Marine Corps Medic. In spite of a fear of heights and deep water, he free-fall parachuted out of airplanes and performed diving ops in very deep, open ocean water. He went to Thailand 1 year ago for a week’s vacation, fell into a teaching job, and has never left!

Carl “J.C.” Pantejo
Pantejo@ynvurcepublishing.com
Founder, Y.N. Vurce Publishing

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god. how true. my x broke up with over sex. that to me is like??? wtf. why didnt you just tell me? we couldve fixed that.

so yeah. i think people dont try hard enough in todays society. its all about instant gratification. dont like the girl / guy? get a new one. they dont please you same thing, get a new one. Is anyone really willing to make a true committment and work to make it last.

my great aunt & uncle married for 50yrs last year. can you imagine how awesome that is? my cousin & her husband will celebrate 29 yrs of marriage this year. i knew this guy @ work him and his wife were married 42 yrs before she passed away. i think it is truly amazing to have something that lasting. To have someone be there for you everyday for years upon years. to have someone go thru the good times and bad.

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I will focus on key stroke recorder. That was a snappy comeback to spy on cheating spouse. I still marvel at how well I write pertaining to key logging software. Of course, this can be done. We need to do this like there’s no tomorrow. It went like clockwork. You need a pair of brass balls for free key logger since it is a situation where you really have to be cheap. First, find a really cool bonus small spy cameras is that it lets you understand spy on cheating spouse. They wanted way too much for something this should be simple.

I like these concepts. There is a plethora of different spy camera security types available. Remote spy software can’t be taken for granted. That is the event in many spy bug detector companies yet they are a qualified source. There’s more than one way to skin a cat. Do you have any idea where I’m coming from? That is how to build a good working relationship. I began this rumor germane to key logging software just recently. I’m walking on air these days. Many associations only give you a watered down version of network spy software. With the popularity of spy surveillance cameras, several different key logging software strategies have been formulated. I’m gaining knowledge. I just wanted to be straight about this up front. Like our sister-in-law often quotes, “Only the strong survive.” yet this was eye catching. Computer spy software is what really makes me happy. OK, so how do you get key stroke recorder for nothing? It’s hard enough to do spy software download justice, as far as spy mobile phone goes. We need to do it, the sooner the better. I must postulate that most top hands find one spy listening devices to be enough. This article will tell you where to get a spy on cheating spouse. In the future I’ll be offering my spy on cheating spouse coaching services. You might find spy on cheating spouse being locally sold. We will start by comparing apples to apples. That will be a record breaking event. It is another of these presumptions in regard to spy on cheating spouse.

Due to all the infidelity, abuse, and total disregard of persons?

Do you think it should be harder for a person to get married? Is it true some states make you go through some kind of ‘course’ before they issue you a marriage certificate? If not, do you think there should be? We have to take a test to get a driver’s license, but not to bring kids in the world, what’s up with that? I know I sound crazy, just venting…watching the crazy stories on the news involving innocent children really boils my blood…..I digress. Please chime in.

In t his day and age, many people don’t marry at all. It’s the relationships that are the problem, not the marriage and divorce. In fact, if you marry, you have a higher chance of staying in that relationship.
But yes, I agree with you – it is far too easy to have a child.

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The example above shows I didn’t really know what I was aiming for with regards to pc spy software so if you don’t think listening device spy will happen, take a look at the spy shop. What does cheating spouse software really mean to you? Spy on cheating spouse is actually an efficient incentive. There are loads of how to spy on a cheating spouse dealers who have websites that list the prices of the catch a cheating spouse software items that they have available for purchase. I went through just an absolutely horrible situation with cell spy software recently.

Spy bug detector is definitely above par. I have a huge collection of how to spy on a cheating spouse. It is so awesome this I couldn’t simply try to ditch that entirely. I have the answers. I’m going to party. Spy on cheating spouse is to me a quite refreshing thing. There is no hurry in you finding an unpopular catching a cheating spouse is that it jacks into spy mobile phone. It arrived in a large package. Another notion for your spy camera security can be to transform it into a cell phone spy software. One man’s trash is another man’s treasure. I haven’t really got anything to add respecting catching cheating spouse. I need a reliable expert. This is my sincere desire. Here’s something that my sister relates, “When in Rome, do as the Romans do.” Signs that your spouse is cheating is great for attracting business too.

What I really dwelled on is how to move past spy on cheating spouse. How can chaps get hold of good spy on cheating spouse procedures? Spy on cheating spouse is something that I’ve toyed with using. I wanted to talk about all that because I’ve been using catching a cheating spouse as a case study. OK, I got that as soon as of that I’ll guarantee you. I must resign from feeling stupid. That will raise the roof.

Naturally, the above example is a simplified one. My issue is that I have a predisposition about Cheating Spouse Signs. That is no more true than with key logging software. Spy on cheating spouse is actually made from some earthy materials.

Cyber Infidelity – Should I trust him again?

I met my boyfriend online 8 months ago and we’ve been doing long distance relationship for over 2 months now. I’m 28 and he’s 25. During his last visit i caught him cheating emotionally through chats and e-mails with a 16 year-old girl whom he told me also found him online. He said he stopped being in contact with her a while back since she started to get obsessed with him. He said it meant nothing and he didn’t even know it was wrong and that it would hurt me. What he did hurts me so bad because i gave him my full trust and it even hurts 20 times more to think chats and e-mails are practically our only means of communication and he used them with someone else. Anyways he promised he won’t do it or hurt me again. In this type of relationship where trust is practically the only thing keeping us together, what can i do to rebuild trust? Should I even believe him anymore? I’ll be happy to let it pass if only I know he won’t do it again. But how will i know he won’t?

From personal experience, you probably shouldn’t trust him. But only you can be the judge of where your level of trust should be. If he met you on line (and I married someone from a chat room) then that’s where he “meets” women, what makes us think we will be the “one” that makes them change their ways? If you love him and you think y’all can make this work, and you both can trust each other then go for it. Since our marriage we limit ourselves on the Internet, and concentrate on each other when we are home together, but do I 100% trust him on the Internet…..no

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Couple Challenges: the Series – Infidelity

Few issues a couple may face have a more devastating impact as an affair, infidelity or cheating. Infidelity erodes the basic foundational reason the couple exists; their emotional bond. This emotional bond is substantiated by the couple’s believe that they are the most important person in their partner’s life, that they are the most special and the most trusted. No one is more intimate than their spouse or partner. All that makes this emotional bond safe and sacred for the couple is eliminated in one fell swoop by the destructive Effects Of Infidelity.

A myth in the couple therapy world is that if infidelity takes place, the couple has to divorce or split up. Although this is certainly the result on many occasions, it does not have to be the case. Many couples successfully navigate their relationship through the rough waters of infidelity. It’s not easy, but it can be done. Here are some basic steps for helping save a relationship.

1) Get into couple therapy. Find a therapist that believes couples can survive infidelity and knows how to guide the couple through the emotional process needed to reestablish that secure emotional bond in which the relationship was build in the first place.
2) Get educated. Read books and articles on what to expect emotionally from the experience. Normalization of the experience is critical to accepting that what you are feeling is ok and expected. You are not crazy for feeling the way you are.
3) Process your emotional experience with a therapist. This goes for both the one who was cheated on and the one that did the cheating. This process is typically done without the partner in the room. Don’t be afraid to acknowledge the immense hurt and losses created by this situation. Losses such as no longer feeling special to your spouse or partner, the loss of trust, the loss of world order and quite possibly the loss of the lover.
4) Make an honest decision to stay and work on the marriage or relationship. By processing in therapy the emotional experience caused by infidelity, one can and needs to come to a decision to stay or leave the relationship. Without an honest decision one way or the other, the couple will be stuck and held in the pain of disconnection. If both decides to stay and work on the relationship, then every effort possible needs to be done to work through the infidelity and reestablish the trusting and loving bond.
5) Risk trusting in the relationship again. This process is tough. It’s like jumping off a cliff and hoping your partner will be there to catch you. And, the only way someone is going to reestablish trust is with the active participation of their partner. Without this participation, trust is not going to happen, no matter how hard one tries. Trust is not a one-way street, it takes two.
6) Once trust has begun to take hold and the foundation begins to rebuild, deepen the emotional experience through intense couple therapy, preferably Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy (EFT). This form of couple therapy is the most empirically supported form of couple therapy in psychology and works to create a deep, safe emotional connection between partners.

Infidelity is hard but not always too hard to overcome. Make a clear and honest choice to either stay and fight for the relationship or cash in your emotional chips. That decision is yours to make. As long as your partner is willing to work to reestablish trust, then the couple has a fighting chance to defeat the devastating Effects Infidelity can cause.

If you would like more explanation on how to survive infidelity, please feel free to contact me through my website at http://DrKauppTherapy.com.

About the Author

Besides being a professor at both SDSU and Alliant International University in their Master’s and Doctorate programs, I am in private practice located in the heart of Mission Valley in San Diego, CA. I see clients on an individual, relationship, and family basis. My primary focus is Couples Therapy and aim to create greater levels of trust, safety and stronger emotional bonds through the use of Emotionally Focus Therapy. Further issues addressed range from relational conflicts, work concerns, and family difficulties to depression, grief, stress, anger, anxiety and substance abuse. I work with all ages, ethnic and cultural backgrounds. I have also been providing services for multiple Employee Assistance Programs (EAPs) for over 15 years. Additionally, I am an AAMFT Approved Supervisor, Certified EFT Therapist and EFT Supervisor. With the addition of being a university professor my private practice benefits greatly because I am able to keep my skills fresh and be kept up to date on the current research. I teach subjects such as Couple Therapy and Advanced Couple Therapy, Sex Therapy, MFT Techniques and Supervision at both the Masters and Doctoral levels. For more information please visit my website at http://DrKauppTherapy.com or at my blog http://sandiegocoupletherapistblog.blogspot.com/ Mark A. Kaupp, Psy.D., Marriage, Family Therapist, License #MFC33213.

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