How To Forgive Infidelity
Sunday, August 2nd, 2009
How do you Forgive Infidelity?
The self says: She confessed without having to (I’d have never had found out) and has shown plenty of remorse. But my self-defence mechanism of fantasing about beating the crap out of other man is redundant because he’s a policeman…
The best female friend says: By forgiving her you’ve been incredibly brave. She’s shown she’ll never make contact with him again (she’s changed her job and phone number without me asking to), and will respect you for being so cool about it and will never hurt you like this again.
Best male friend says: You mug! You let her off so lightly, she’ll blatantly do it again knowing she can get away with it. Once a cheat…
What do YOU say?
How does the saying goes….’to ere is human and to forgive is divine.’
Hence you know she is human and making mistake is part of being human.
To forgive…well deep down inside you…you know if you can actually and truly forgive her. You know how much she had repented and whether she has the possibility of doing it again…for you love this girl n knows some of her reaction…moves…gestures.
You also know that being human is apart of you and to what extend can you truly give her your forgiveness. Do not torture yourself by pretending you can be the bigger man and give her a second chance…if you cannot even forget about it…..Ask yourself (put aside all that have been said to you) ask yourself deep down can you do it…if you can then you will have the strength to face words that can deter you (being a man and all) n you may get something valuable and worthed out of this path of your life……but if you cannot than you know what you have to do…forgive her by releasing her….either way you win n you alone know why.
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