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Infidelity And Marriage

Saturday, August 20th, 2011

infidelity and marriage
Would you end your marriage over your husband’s infidelity?

I wouldn’t. I”d teach him a lesson so that he’d never dream of repeating it again, stick my chin and my nose up and carry on with him by my side.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1090395/Tana-Ramsays-right-Its-worth-ending-marriage-husbands-infidelity.html

I think it depends on the situation. My husband had an affair, it went on for 2 years, i knew but couldnt prove a thing at first, but eventually caught him out. I still Loved him so much and it cut me so deeply but i didnt end it because of his infidelity, everyone deserves a second chance. But he kept seeing her and in the mean time made me struggle more and more with bills, food and 5 lil ones while he and her were off eating out, having shopping sprees and squandering money, she got taken everywhere in our 4×4 while i had to walk everywhere and carry heavy shopping bags and trudge through knee high snow with my kids when they got snowed in at school, as well as alot of other crappy hardships i was put through. The reason i threw him out was that he beat me, he had hit me in the past but never as badly as the last time. But after a long hard few years and lots of counselling we are now back together and happy at the moment, he seems to hang on my every word and treats me like a princess.But if he were to ever hurt me again then that would be it id have no hesitation.
I believe marrage is the ultimate commitment and i take my vows seriously and that Love is something to hold on to and fight for.
Some may think me mad, but if nobody gave second chances then the world would be even colder than it already is.
xxx

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