Hi, Tamara. I would like to say I feel for your situation, if there is one, I hope that your interest is not personal! Divorce And Infidelity are horrible and messy situations.

Take a look at Matthew 19:4-9

And Pharisees came to Him and put Him to the test by asking, Is it lawful and right to dismiss and repudiate and divorce one’s wife for any and [a]every cause?

4He replied, Have you never read that He Who made them from the beginning made them male and female,5And said, For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and shall be united firmly (joined inseparably) to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh?(A) 6So they are no longer two, but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let not man put asunder (separate). 7They said to Him, Why then did Moses command [us] to give a certificate of divorce and thus to dismiss and repudiate a wife? 8He said to them, Because of the hardness (stubbornness and perversity) of your hearts Moses permitted you to dismiss and repudiate and divorce your wives; but from the beginning it has not been [b]so [ordained].9I say to you: whoever dismisses (repudiates, divorces) his wife, except for unchastity, and marries another commits adultery, [c]and he who marries a divorced woman commits adultery.

Esp look at verse 9. Jesus words are all you need on this one. The way I see it, adultery occurs when the marriage bond or covenant is broken. This can occur through divorce, or it can occur though infidelity. If one spouse has committed adultery, the conventant is broken and the other is free to leave, as the marriage has ALREADY been divorced… in God’s eyes any way, not the eyes of western law. I encourage you assess every situation though, and pray. Even though it may not be best for you, if there are kids involved etc, it might be best to say. In Christ all things are possible!!

I would be careful of other stand-alone verses taken out of context. In the perfect world God created divorce is absent, because it creates pain. Unfortunately it occurs in this fallen world, and I believe sometimes may be necessary.

I would just like to add. In cases without infidelity, to divorce and marry another is adultery. However if their is physical or sexual abuse involved etc it may be necessary to separate from a spouse. This is not divorce, but necessary (read 1 Corinthians 7 verse 10-11 esp 11). With these grey areas I think it’s tough, that why God word says in “Corinthians 6:12 that everything is permissible for me, but not everything is beneficial”. Remember we are NO longer under the Leviticus law as Christ has fulfilled it and created a new covenant (Romans 3:21, a weak example,but trust me half the new testament speaks of the new covenant!) ! This does not mean that the principles do not still apply, or that we can sin and do as we please, but our freedom in Christ has allowed us to assess every situation, and not be bound by strict black and white rules.

So in summary. Jesus said ur free to divorce after infidelity, it’s not how God intended, and in your situation it might not even be God’s will!! But I recommended you pray about it and seek him.

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Stop being selfish and let her be happy for once. Even if you could get her back, it would never be the same…she will always have some bit of resentment towards you.

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I am going through this right now. I found things that suggest my husband has been unfaithful. It’s the hardest thing ever to imagine the what-ifs. Because i dont have hard proof, i decided against a separation or divorce, cuz, god, what if i’m wrong? I believe that the emails and the porn are not that big of deal, upsetting, yes, and definately a behavior i would try to stop. SHes hurt mostly because she discovered a side to you she didnt know existed and it altered the trust level. Now shes being tortured with the unknown. Wondering if you did what she thinks you did, wondering if you’re teling the truth. and i can guarentee you, it’s killng her inside. If you’re innocent, i really feel for you, and i also feel for your wife. i know exactly how she is feeling right now. I suggest marriage counseling ASAP. If she would like to talk to someone who knows what its like and someon who was able to look past it and forgive, you can put her in touch with me. I know what its like to assume your husband has been unfaithful, but because it was only an assumption, with no confesion or hard proof, i had to give my hubby the benifit of the doubt, but this will be the last time he gets that. Since it was the first time, i was not willig to throw away 10 years on an assumption. If i would have had indefinate proof, that would have been an entirely different story. Good luck.

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Oh, yes. Not an unusual reaction at all. It will take some time to get past all this. Just know that you are handling this in a mature way that will benefit you and your son in the long run. I admire you for putting him first and not creating a hostile environment around him.

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If I gave THAT excuse I would be ashamed ! I would ask for him to find some dignity but that ship has sailed !

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You should get that upper class wives get married for money,
class,society.Its not real or true love marriage with a soulmate.They have hobbies or needs which are fulfilled by the rich successful husband.While they are trophy wives for their husbands who just needs a wife in the name only.What does a woman do with all that money other then going to parties and gossiping with her friends?Next thing is flirting,dressing up,finding younger or older men for discreet meetings for affairs.The husband even if comes to know is too busy working making money rich class society to bother about it when might be cheating wife himself while the wife has fun since she gets what she doesnt get from husband with other man.So both in this couple in upper class remain married for money,class,society.Its all fake.

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Someone always gets hurt. You need to break it off and just move forward.

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Evolutionarily, we are designed for serial monogamy. Parents stick together to help raise offspring, which increases the offspring’s chance of survival.

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This is the sort of thing that only politicians could get incensed over.

The current law in England says that a person accused of murder may introduce the infidelity of a partner as a defense to mitigate the degree of the crime. The decision on whether to accept that claim lies with the jury.

The Government wants to take the option off the table completely. The House of Lords has blocked the revision to the law, saying ministers were refusing to “trust the good common sense of a British jury”.

The reason I say that “only politicians” could get worked up about this is simple…. the last time an English jury DID accept infidelity as grounds to reduce a murder charge to manslaughter was in 1932! Since it’s not happening anyway, why waste time and breath arguing about whether it should, or should not, be “technically” allowed?

Richard

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This one is hard. I can understand your pain because my wife was married for 25 years to a guy who did basically the same sort of thing. For whatever reason there are just some people who hit their 40′s or 50′s, look around and seem to think their missing something. As you know this often leads to infidelity, lies, and sometimes even excessive drinking. First off realize that this is not your fault, and keep telling yourself this until you really believe it. As hard as it is you have to let it go. If you need help dealing with this get it. The last thing you need is to end up bitter at the world because of things you can’t control. Take some time for just you. Then move on with your head held high. It’s not too late to find love again and it will be hard to trust another that deeply but you can do it. Good luck and God Bless

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