I know what you mean…i don’t understand what happens to people..they say there vows for better or worse till death do us part then they get bored or things go down hill and they just think throwing it all away and cheating is the answer…Im lucky my parents have been married for 30 years and still act like love birds…ive been married for seven and they’ve been great so far but people need to learn when they start getting bored or looking around they need to talk to there spouse and come up with ways to keep it interesting…..people need to read the bible more and bring jesus into there life..

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If I gave THAT excuse I would be ashamed ! I would ask for him to find some dignity but that ship has sailed !

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To me, it is. I am not going to settle for a man who is not totally committed to our relationship.

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Yes, It does require a bit of patience and a good understanding between partners. Some relationships are based on open ended situations where the partners are not mutually exclusinve. This has tobe worked out well ahead of any living together or affermation of the relationship.

If one partner is unfaithful BUT both want it to remain intact, there has to be a lost of very honest and sincere discussion about what and how the transgression came to pass.

If jealousy exists in the relationship two things are sure to happen – There will be transgressions and eventually the relationship wll break up. Jealousy in a clear basis for lack of trust. That leads to interrogations, arguements and other impositions of one person on the other. That will not work.

Basically, the unfaithful person has to acknowledge that they made a mistake – assumning the wish to continue the realtionship and will maintain a commitment not to do it again.

If it does happen a second – or more – time, than you have to decide whether to keepp the relationship together knowing that you partner is weak and liable to be unfaithful. Remember something else. Even if a person is unfaithful to the realtionship, the nig questions is – do they came “Home”. If the do, without being chased, then there is definite desire to maintain the relationship. Build on that and don’t worry about anything else.

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I think it’s actually more common than most people realize. It’s kind of human nature for the idea “What’s good for the goose is also good for the gander” to pop into your head.

But as natural as this idea may be, it is still a wrong thing to do. Cheating will not help mend your marriage. On the contrary, if you cheat on him back, your marriage is highly likely to go down the toilet.

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i admit i cheated. now, my boyfriend was a really nice guy, he did everything for me, he was friendly, the nicest u can imagine. he treated me like a queen, whatever i needed i got. but but but but the sex was not there, he was not sexually active, and as much as i loved him and respected and believe me, even told him multiple times that i wanted to have sex, he just wouldnt and i knew he loved me. i just found someone to sleep with, cause i just couldnt take it anymore. by the way i was with him for 8 yrs and had no sex 3 yrs straight, even after tallking about it with him, i just had to do it

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I think it would be stalking at the beginning. If you don’t see that then there probably isn’t any fatal attraction.

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My dear, you have answered your own question. Not only that, but when they pick an argument for no reason to get out the house, watch that shit!

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To me emotional affairs are just as bad, if not worse, than physical ones. I recently left my wife because of an ongoing emotional affair that she was having with a coworker. It is not fair to you for the person you care about to confide in someone else. His behavior will not change just because he got a tatoo. I would seriously consider leaving him before you marry him and regret it.

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Tell your BF that he needs to man up. You’ve been playing paddy cake with him for three years and he still hasn’t gotten his divorce. What does he think of you? When you are together he should not be making his drama your drama. It’s disrespectful to you.

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A detective isn’t allowed to break the law. A good investigator (which isn’t cheap) knows how to acquire legal evidence that can be used in court.

If you suspect something is up… nine out of ten times it’s probably true. You don’t need pictures of them in the act. Pictures at the door, credit card receipts and phone records should suffice. Save yourself thousands of dollars and do the leg work yourself.

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Not if he knows what he is doing… if he is a basic user he may have just deleted them and emptied the recycle bin. if that’s the case then windows just deletes references to the files, but the files are still there most likely still there. Try this! http://www.piriform.com/recuva Hope it works

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Move on, F u c k him.

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According to the Bible…. yes.

According to pretty much any other legal and/or moral standard…. no.

I’m not sure why I got thumbs down. What did I say that was inaccurate or offensive?

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Yes….if the cheater realizes what he has done and how much hurt he has caused. The cheater has to take total responsibility for the choice that was made and set up preventative measures that will keep it from ever happening again. Also, the cheater needs to know that if there would be another betrayal in this marriage that there will never ever be a second chance again. The marriage will need counseling to understand why it happened and direction in the marriage to help deal with the pain, loss of trust issues and how to rebuild the relationship.
NO…. the relationship will not survive if the cheater feels no remorse for his actions and continues to give the spouse any indication that he is out cheating again. No trust can rebuild itself on someone that continues to do what they want and when they want and does not include the spouse.As long as the cheater believes that they should have all the freedom as before the betrayal the relationship is doomed. If they do not understand that everything is different now and that it will take a long time before trust can be earned the marriage will not survive. Also, if the couple in the marriage try to work all these problems and issues out on their own they will not make it because you can only learn how to live with what has happened but the hurt and pain will always be there and never forgotten. This is where you have to both learn how to support one another through the down times and lift one another up and stay focused on the here and now. If a couple thinks that they can heal themselves without total commitment to fixing what is wrong in the first place marriage will never survive infidelity.

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i think every couple will have their own limits of what is acceptable behaviour, and i think it is healthy that every couple should.

but cheating has definitely started once either partner begins to lie to cover up what is really going on – whether there has been physical intimacy or not.

i think it would be difficult, but not impossible, to cope with a physical infidelity as long as your partner was willing to tell you about it.

but once the trust is gone there really is no relationship to save.

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When it comes to relationships and marriages, hardly is there a topic as touchy as one that has to do with the issue Of Infidelity. This is more so because few upheavals in the course of a relationship cause as much turmoil as this thorny issue which often lead to relationships breaking up, marriages filing for divorces, insecurity, mistrust and resentment replacing the love, trust and comfort that most of these relationships once fostered.

Infidelity according to the Oxford Advanced Learner’s Dictionary means the act of not being faithful to your wife, husband or partner, by having sex with somebody else. Therefore for the purpose of this article and others relating to the issue of infidelity, the term “relationship” will be used to refer to both those in marriages and those that are in a mutually exclusive relationship of love.

The most perplexing reality About Infidelity in relationships is the fact that no relationship is immune to it as it knows no boundary. It respects neither creed nor colour; the rich or poor, newlywed or those celebrating their golden anniversaries. The fact is that it can happen to anyone – even you. According to the Journal of Marriage and Family, couples in “pretty happy” marriages are twice as likely to have an affair as those in “very happy” marriages.

To worsen the situation, the available statistics appear very gloomy and frightening, making you think if there is any hope for today’s relationships surviving its onslaught. According to Peggy Vaughan’s (author of The Monogamy Myth) analysis show that 60 percent of husbands and 40 percent of wives will have an affair at some point in their marriage; however, less than 10 percent of people who have affairs divorce and marry their lovers.

With that said it is heart-warming and reassuring to at least realise that there is a glimmer of hope of today’s relationships surviving and coping with this monster of infidelity.

Let’s step back a little and look at possible Reasons Why Infidelity keeps rearing its ugly head in our relationships today.

Majority of people enter into relationships with the expectation of finding fulfilment and happiness in the company of their partner. They hope that their partner would help them to validate and complete the feelings of emptiness, unworthiness and insecurity they have. When these feelings and needs are not met by their partner, most start to look outside of the relationship to find someone who might fulfil these needs. This is the root cause of infidelity – the lack of happiness and satisfaction in relationships.

The affairs are not the actual problem but are the symptom of the problems the relationship might be experiencing. Most issues of infidelity centre on the need for approval, attention and sex needing to be met and satisfied by the other partner in the relationship. It is therefore reasonable to say that 90% of affairs occur because of the close emotional connection that is often formed between the cheater and his accomplice rather than just the need for sexual intimacy.

The main reason why infidelity is so damaging and painful is because of the betrayal, lack of trust, secrets and deception that took place in the course of the affair. Infidelity basically breaks the most sacred treasure in any relationship, that of trust. Without trust you cannot be open with someone and ultimately you can never be happy either.

After the devastating disclosure of infidelity, how to deal with it varies from person to person, but the knowledge that recovery is possible can help those affected work through it. Reassuringly, the majority of relationships affected by infidelity not only survive it, but observation by professionals show that many of these relationships become stronger and more intimate after therapy.

The surest way to forestall this incidence from reoccurring is to discover how and why the emotional disconnection happened in the relationship and work towards resolving them together with your partner. Nonetheless, there must be true remorse and willingness on the part of the cheater to change and repair the damage done and the cheated is willing to work hard to forgive the cheater.

However, bear in mind that recovery will not come overnight as the process takes time – often years to rebuild the broken trust.  Once the coupes are committed to working together in dealing with the issues at the heart of the emotional disconnection, their relationship can most definitely survive, and thrive, after infidelity.

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Marriage And Infidelity – Three Keys To Rebuilding Trust

Marriage and infidelity. You never want to have to address those two words together in your lifetime. When you’re faced with the knowledge that your spouse has been unfaithful, you have some tough decisions to make. First and foremost you need to decide whether rebuilding the marriage is something you want to do. If it is, you need to determine what the two of you are going to do together to ensure adultery never enters your relationship again. For many couples, the realization that an affair has occurred is a reawakening for their marriage. They take it as an opportunity to work on improving their connection and addressing their problems. Rebuilding trust is at the cornerstone of keeping your relationship together. Learning how to do that can be the difference between the success of your marriage or its failure.

Three keys to rebuilding trust in your marriage are:

Open and honest communication. You and your partner have to be willing to share what you’re feeling with one another, no holds barred. You have to be able to tell them you’re hurt and upset over the affair. You need to listen as they share what lead them up to making the decision to cheat. Honesty is crucial and you both have to learn how to accept what the other is saying without verbally attacking one another. Once a couple can reach a place where they both feel completely comfortable about sharing, trust is well on its way to being reestablished.

Being more available. Typically when there is infidelity in a relationship there is more responsibility placed on the Cheating Spouse to rebuild the trust. They need to make themselves as available as they possibly can. Sit down and work out an arrangement that allows you to have the ability to contact them at a moment’s notice. Doubt will linger for a long time if the person who cheated continues to roam around in secrecy.

Spend more time together. Rebuilding trust after an affair is an ongoing progression. You move forward step-by-step. One way to bridge the emotional and physical distance you feel after adultery is to spend more time just being together. It doesn’t matter if that time is spent talking about the relationship or if you simply sit and watch a movie together. You need to work on reconnecting with each other and you can’t do that if you’re not together.

When it comes to marriage and infidelity, healing is definitely an option. With time and trust you and your spouse can get back to the way you were early in your marriage when you vowed to be committed to each other forever.

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Many couples have to face the issue Of Infidelity in their relationship. There are steps you can take to save your marriage after an affair.

You can get past the infidelity and rebuild your relationship so it’s more connected and fulfilling than it’s ever been before.

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What are some sure signs of a cheating spouse?

•Your spouse seems bored. Bored with you, with job, with kids, with hobbies, with life in general.
•Your spouse seems to want danger or thrills in his/her life.
•There is considerably less intimacy in your relationship. Your sex life is practically non-existent.
•Your spouse has a low self-esteem.
•You notice your spouse has a sense of confusion about self.
•You spouse has become lazy, especially around the house.
•You can’t get your spouse to communicate with you.
•Your spouse gets very defensive if you mention infidelity or affairs.
•Your spouse is suddenly more attentive than usual.
•Your mate is working longer hours at work.
•Your spouse is dressing nicer, looking nicer.
•You notice charges on credit card statement that don’t make sense.
•Your spouse is indifferent to family events like birthdays and holidays.
•You find your partner has been lying to you about a variety of things.
•Money becomes more of an issue between the two of you.
•He/she doesn’t want to go anywhere or do anything with you anymore.
•You can’t even get your mate to fight with you.
•You feel as if you are being avoided.
•Your partner abandons religious faith.
•Your spouse seems more secretive.

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