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My husband cheated me twice. Do I need to trust him again?

After those two infidelity, I forgave him. Now, he is again working overseas and there were times that I asked him if we have any problem because it was unusual of him to skip sending me text messages in a day or two. He get pissed with my question. What do you think guys?

If someone cheats once, that doesn’t make them a serial cheater. It means they made a bad decision and were being immature. If they confess, do everything necessary to ease your mind, apologize for their behavior without blaming others, and the root cause of the cheating is revealed (immaturity, lack of communication, lack of affection, etc)..then I can see forgiving him once.

But the second time…why would you forgive him a second time? By doing so you have given him permission to do it over and over again, with no consequences.

I lived with a serial cheater. The more he cheated, the more I tried desperately to hold the marriage together. A dozen affairs later I finally had the courage to walk out. Now he tells my children that I was the one cheating and drinking and writing hot checks. He’s delusional. But I’m happy now, married to a man who is faithful and knows that having a family is more important than some twisted desire for random sex.

I say that you are either going to have to trust him or leave him. No more questions about his fidelity. Love him unconditionally and put the past in the past. No reason to cause yourself anguish wondering if he’s being faithful. Love him as though he IS faithful until he provides clues that he is being unfaithful. At that point, do yourself a favor and walk out.

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